I Almost Loved You
I Could Have Loved You
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No WOMAN should take care of a healthy, well abled man, a female might. You must allow a man to be a man. He will never do any better, if you allow him to sleep in your bed, drive your car, eat the food you purchased, enjoy free sex, watch TV all day, because you keep the lights on. This is not what a healthy relationship is about. However, if this makes you happy (for now), it’s your thang, do what you want to do. I don’t have to live in your house. For those who you who want a real man and you are operating as the MAN. It’s time to get off the merry go round, and fix this mess, before you continue in this relationship. If you are needy, and addicted to men in an unhealthy way, you will never find your way out. That’s why you need to keep reading this book. Your life can change, like mines did and the woman who meet Jesus at the well. I have learned what real love is, and what real love does. God’s love does not leave your spirit, mind, soul, emotions, intellect and body, feeling, used, belittled, neglected, disappointed and abused. If you would allow the truths in this book to help you. Your life will never be the same. The past cannot be changed, we can only learn and grow from it. We can only deal with the present moment and move forward to do better in the future. Allow God into your heart, become a power woman, as you see your new identity in Christ by believing, confessing and applying action to what he says about you in his word.
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The plan was foolproof (it is not a typo). She brought the dress. He surprised her with the ring. The wedding date was set. Counseling was over. They were going to Paris to take the honey to the moon. Is marriage roses, rings, cars, and things? Marriage requires a strong foundation to withstand the storms and process the problems through. Relationships take a lot of effort. You must arm yourself. Be willing to add application and cultivate your partner to be successful. Cook up some good ingredients with your partner—love, time, patience, respect, sharing, giving, peace, forgiveness, honesty, commitment, support, laughter, security, and prayer. The question is, what are you going to do? Paul said in the book of Romans, “Marriage has its own troubles.” If you’re married, it came with issues. Some people are very difficult to deal with as an individual. Do not be fooled. If love remains and the person is willing, love can still conquer within the distorted pain. Who will enjoy Valentine’s with me? I used to get flowers on my anniversary. I don’t have to figure out if we will spend Thanksgiving at his parents’ or Christmas at my family’s. I saw the movie Fireproof on July 28, 2014. This powerful movie is another learning tool about relationships and committing to love under the contract of God’s Word. If you are married, engaged, separated, single, and entertaining the thought of divorce, please see it. Have you been told “I don’t love you anymore?” We tend to think of relationships as being glass proof. We have heard of the term fireproof, glass-proof, and waterproof. However, are there relationship-proofs? If something is fireproof or waterproof, nothing can penetrate it. God’s original plan was foolproof. Man did things his way, and thus, it became foul-proof. Turning his plans against God only left him foolish. The man pops the question. The monies are saved for the big day, expecting everything to be perfect. I own a safe and a waterproof watch. The contents inside are supposed to be protected from what may happen on the outside. If there is water or a fire, the contents may be safe. However, if there is an earthquake, the inside and outside would be destroyed. I heard the definition of the word covenant and contract. It really shed light on the meaning of those words, as I had never heard before. Do you think you know the difference? Can something last forever? Before you answer these questions, you need to dive into this book that will help identify destructive behaviors as we pull away some layers to further support our passion for wholesome relationships, concerning how to best formulate the opportunity to enjoy and experience relationships as they evolve and form.
About the Author
Victoria the eldest, her siblings, Randy and Zolita Thomas. Their mother Annie B. Thomas went home to heaven August 2nd, 2012. Victoria has been a member of Exciting First Assembly of God, under Pastor Randy Valimont since 2006. Actively involved as an altar care worker, home bible group leader and prayer room. Victoria has been graced with various awards, achievements, recognitions, speaking engagements and TV appearances. She has done missions work in several countries. Victoria has spent over 27 years as a wellness professional. Her credentials include; various group, nutrition, personal training and fitness certifications. Health and human services, flight training, Women’s Business Association, Who’s Who, CPR Instructor and Chaplaincy. Victoria, obtained her Bachelor’s degree in Natural health 2007. Complete her Masters of Arts in Christian Biblical Studies May 2014 at Luther Rice Seminary. Victoria has authored and published three other books Visit her website to learn more at www.ssb523.com or send a email to ssbfitness@aol.com or call (678)-520-5298 to book a free seminar.