Black like me White like me

About the Book

“The baby’s cute . . . why don’t you adopt her?”

“If her own mother doesn’t want her, why would I?”

This conversation took place between two nurses in the delivery room right aft er I was born to a 16-year old unmarried mother. This was a precursor of the kind of struggle my life would be unti l I stood up and shouted, “I AM SOMEBODY!” Why did it take me so long???

I don’t want you to think I am harping on the bad things that happened in my life. Despite everything, I am an incredibly positi ve person, who has taken a licking and kept right on ti cking! My saving grace is mentoring, and standing up for those who just need someone to stand up for them. Maybe one of these days, I will be more able to stand up for myself. I’m getti ng there. This is just my life, honey, simply the way it is. I am telling you my story. This is a story about success, and giving back to a community that mostly kicked me in the teeth.

About the Author

My mother died early in my life, after which my brother and I lived with various relatives until our father remarried. During my first twelve years of school, I changed schools over 24 times. After graduating from Oberlin College, I married my college sweetheart. We had forty years together, during which he had a full career in the Air Force. After he died I moved to Air Force Village in San Antonio, where I met, married and survived two Air Force retired officers. Three happy marriages! Writing has always been my hobby, and most of these stories were written for a writing group I joined in my later years. Their advice and positive suggestions have led me to recount my life’s experiences.